Friends

Friends are one of the wonderful gifts of life however this relation may be ruined due to different reasons .

Stresses of life , changes in attitude and personality are some reasons of friendships collapse.

Do you see yourself as victim who deserve care and pity? Do you see yourself sacrifice your happiness ,life and everything just to make your friends happy?

If your answer is yes then i can imagine the impact of loneliness when you except our friends to be there and you do not find anyone.

But you need to see things from different perspective , actually no one in life has the right to force you sacrificing any precious thing in your life as a result you make this sacrifice by your own will for the ones you love most and you should not wait for something in return - as hard as it seems but it's a fact- and if you do not think they deserve any effort from your side so do not make it because simply no one will judge or ask you why you did not make sacrifice for me? ( it is very mean question from a friend )

Over-expectation is the root cause of any problem between friends so limit your ceiling of expectations and then small action from friend will means you a lot.

Choosing your friends is very crucial , sometimes we care for the wrong people and ignore true friends , this is fatal mistake , friendship is two way relationship and friend must care for his/her friend even by small effort otherwise he/she can not be called friend so do not replace true friends with fake relationships with people wrongly named friends this is very naive .

The biggest disaster ever that our lives depend on our friends if we are in a good terms then life is fine and if we are in problems then life is black , sad and depressing ..... your life is yours and happiness should be initiated from inside and should not by any mean depend on any other person.

Be in control because life is yours and not owned by others.

Remember every single moment of happiness with friends every smile or tear you shared

every event everything and if your friend changed or life separated you apart just remember that you still have many friends who still care